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How were you disciplined growing up?

My parents didn't hesitate to use corporal punishment if they felt it was necessary (and in some cases it really wasn't). I could never do that to my kids if I had any.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
Good old-fashioned bare-bottom spanking.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Crazychick Her friends regarded it as appropriate secrecy done for security reasons. I, of course, do not respect this kind of behavior.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@greenmountaingal Her friends must have been equally weird.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Crazychick You have no idea. Weird barely describes it.
SW-User
My dad used to beat me with a slipper until I was 16. My mum used to ban me from using the internet plus ground me , stop my pocket money and send me to bed early which was more effective than the beatings. My dad also made me do chours and if I did them all right and pass the test he would let me come downstairs for a few hours.
SW-User
@SW-User My parents made me shovel our long driveway if it was winter time, sometimes they would either ban me from going out or playing video games, or they would have me clean our entire garage. I think those punishments were definitely more effective for me.
SW-User
@SW-User yeah they sound a lot more fairer than physical punishments. I don’t believe in physical punishments
Discipline is not the same as punishment. Punishment is a part of discipline.
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
I was incredibly spoiled. Never grounded or any chores or any punishments. Am I a spoiled brat now who is very materialistic? Yeah. And no I don't care.
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@AnonymousJSS You must be super lucky Miss !!! Never had this chance.
joe438 · 61-69, M
I was spanked over Mom's knee, by hand or later with her brush. Then at 10 I was "too old" for that so she switched to grounding and time in my room "to think about what I had done."

I greatly preferred the spanking as it was over and done with.
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joe438 · 61-69, M
@Tripdelta4 My last ones from her at 10 and they were doozies. Maybe she was trying to make the memorable? Time in your room meant no books or radio and of course there were no computers. You had to stay on the bed and be silent.
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chubbysteve99 · 51-55, MVIP
spanked over mums knee bare bottom until i was 17 with a wooden spoon
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Wooden spoon and yelling in pre-school years, later banned access to computer, then inducing the feeling of shame through mocking and ridiculing, which was very effective in my case.
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@CrazyMusicLover That's pretty much how it went for me too, in addition to spankings and belt whoopings.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@SW-User I don't remember being spanked. My mom now says that it didn't work for me so she gave it up. But I remember my father chasing my brother with a leather belt. The cracking sound was usually effective enough to threaten both of us. Raised voice is what I remember the best and it usually worked for us.
JT123 · M
Spanking 😩
UncleJlovesbrazil · 61-69, M
I was mostly spanked but my parents figured that a grounding or denial of privileges woyld hurt more. A spanking pain would be over in only A few minutes and I could go on doing what I liked doing.
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I use to get spanked with the slipper or spoon or grounded and had to go to bed early
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Alessandro · 46-50, M
@Tripdelta4 tells about spanking with the brush your mom took as a child
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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
As I said in my other response here, my mother was emotionally and physically abusive. For the truly bizarre and crazy details, you can read my Featured story.
I never really needed it my mom says. And my kids don't receive violent punishments either.
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@SW-User Well that is good to know. My dad is gone but I know that he disciplined me the way he did because he cared about me.
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