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How were you raised?

What were your parents like? Were they overly permissive? Authoritative? Authoritarian? Abusive? Neglectful? Loving? Let’s talk about it.
Effloresce · 26-30, F
A mixture of authoritarianism and helicopter parenting
Syktur · 26-30, M
@Effloresce I’m sure you felt quite smothered x
Effloresce · 26-30, F
I sure did @Syktur
tiggerandariel13 · 41-45, MVIP
my parents taught me and my 2 brothers the value of hard work and respect we respected our mom and dad they weren't strict with me and my brothers my dad will always take me and my brothers to sport events in Chicago where we lived
I had a great upbringing and amazing parents but I feel I have let them down by becoming such a screw up and bring so messed up
Syktur · 26-30, M
@ExperienceDLT I feel the same at times, though they’ve fallen short in some ways. Just be helpful to them; do kind things and ask nothing in return. Thank them often for what they’ve contributed to your life. Ask them for advice and follow it. X
@Syktur thank you that is sound advice
Syktur · 26-30, M
@ExperienceDLT good luck my friend. Don’t forget change is possible. It all starts with you x
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
They are loving but authorative
Syktur · 26-30, M
@Deadcutie as it should be x authoritative is good.
Deadcutie · 18-21, F
@Syktur yep
SW-User
My mum didn’t want much to do with the up bringing of me , my dad was over protective to the point of controlling me.
SW-User
@Syktur yes it was. And it still is. My dad won’t allow me to move out until I’m in my 30s and he can get mentality abuisive. I hardly see my mum or hear from her. She uses Facebook and Instagram and as Long as my account is still active and I’m posting she doesn’t bother contacting me.
Syktur · 26-30, M
@SW-User praying you see a way out of that. Hugs x
SW-User
@Syktur thank you 😊 hugs 🤗 you back
Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M
Pretty Authoritarian. It explains my extremely rebelliousness when I was young
Syktur · 26-30, M
@Ryanoliver2011 I can definitely have an idea lmao. Did the same. Only thing was that they were pretty permissive; my dad was the one who decided when I would or wouldn’t get the shit beaten out of me
Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M
@Syktur sometimes my dad used to beat me as well...
Syktur · 26-30, M
@Ryanoliver2011 it sucks but you end up having to stand up for yourself.
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Syktur · 26-30, M
@SeymourWeiner aren’t you Jesus
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Bruja · F
"He" (I'd rather bathe in pickle juice all day for the rest of my life than call him my father) was abusive in more ways than one, but my mother was alright. She wasn't very strict with me. Luckily I didn't live with him.
VioletShadows · 51-55, F
Very strict, but loving. My father was a minister.
VioletShadows · 51-55, F
@Syktur lol I can. Imagine when your daughter is the goth...
Syktur · 26-30, M
@VioletShadows yikes. They’d be terrified
VioletShadows · 51-55, F
@Syktur They understood me on some levels really well, but easily threatened by what they didn't and harsh in their reactions.
SW-User
My parents were pretty strict, and they had no problem using corporal punishment.
Syktur · 26-30, M
@SW-User I can relate, but only with the corporal punishment part lol
Baby boomers who didn’t take shit but gave plenty of freedom
RaemaSnr · 22-25, F
Strict, christian and one of them was/is very abusive

 
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