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Do you think it is okay for kids to greet adults by their first name?

Poll - Total Votes: 27
Yes
No
I think the adult should tell them
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Or do you think it should be Mr. Mrs. Ms. and their last name?
Jorgillo · 36-40, M
absolutely. My name is Jorge nothing before or after.
Confined · 56-60, M
Depends on the situation. First meeting respectful, then can call by first name in non formal settings.
Bellavida · F
In our house it's Sir or Ma'am
GirlSerendipity · 26-30, F
@Bellavida mine too
Badseed · 61-69, M
Children have always called me by my first name and I'm fine with it.

I don't think being made to address adults as Mr/Ms So-and-So makes children respect that adult any more than if they used the adults' first names. I know there were adults I addressed "respectfully" as a child whom I thought were stupid and/or bullies etc.
Badseed · 61-69, M
When I was a kid, adults who demanded that I address them as "sir" or "ma'am," (which I wasn't required to do with my parents), just seemed like bullies. It didn't make me "respect" them more.
Jorgillo · 36-40, M
@Badseed in fact bullies are more likely to insist on being called with titles like mr. It's their sense of entitlement that drives them there.
Jorgillo · 36-40, M
@Badseed exactly but most people especially those higher on the narcissistic spectrum, don't care so much about how things are, only how they look like they are.
Meisje · 31-35, F
I do not use first names unless encouraged to. At Uni, professors use first names and I still cannot seem to do it, I prefer "Prof. or Dr." My students call me "Dr.___"
Badseed · 61-69, M
There are parents who insist that their children address all adults as Mr./Miss/Mrs. So-and-so, no matter what.

So their child meets a new adult. "Pleased to meet you Mr. Jones."

"Call me Fred," Mr. Jones replies.

"Yes Mr. Jones."

"Seriously, I prefer to be addressed by my first name. Please call me 'Fred.'"

"Yes Mr. Jones."

And this is supposed to be all about "respect??"
Jorgillo · 36-40, M
@Badseed these kids are raised by authoritarian bullies. They can't breathe without permission and they can't breathe even with it. I've had a friend like that.
Goralski · 51-55, M
I always tell em ta use Chris not one fo formalities
MrsPeterEvans · 31-35, F
Mr or Mrs or Miss. Or Sir and Ma'am, which I was taught

 
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