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My dad is cheating on my mom and I'm afraid he might get the girl pregnant.

My mom says as his daughter, I'm the one who should voice my concerns. But I don't want to he has a really bad temper...

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InOtterWords · F

Your mum should not bring you into this.

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xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

Oh @InOtterWords

InOtterWords · F

@xRockGlossPrincessx it's just my opinion, but you are an adult now. This is their relationship, as tough as that may sound, but it's not your responsibility.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@InOtterWords Okay thanks. :)

celine211 · 22-25, F

Your mother should voice her opinions as his WIFE ps it they're together

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xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@celine211 Well he has a bad temper and a slight mental disability.

celine211 · 22-25, F

@xRockGlossPrincessx That doesn't give him a pass to cheat they should get help or something..but hey that's her husband sorry to say i can't understand your mother's reaction.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@celine211 Yes she doesn't care. :(

metalicblack · 46-50, M

It is your mothers place to speak to him about his cheating but the the of you should stand together and tell him how his actions are hurting the whole family

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@metalicblack Okay thanks

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

Your mom knows this and suggests you should talk to him about it? Does she even care?

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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@SW-User yeah 😂😂😂 Hahahah

SW-User

@SimplyTracie that sounds good to me 😂🤣

SimplyTracie · 26-30, F

@SW-User And I'd give him a BLT with extra bacon so he can have a mild stroke on the way down. 😂 Hahahah

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xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@SW-User Okay. =\

bijouxbroussard · F

I don't agree [b]at all[/b]. His infidelity is between him and his [b]wife[/b]. He's breaking vows he made to your [b]mother[/b], not to [b]you[/b].
Bottom line, she's free to stop being his wife, but you'll always be his daughter. It makes sense that you'd have feelings about it, but it's unfair of her to try and enlist you as an ally and put you in the middle of their mess.

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bijouxbroussard · F

@xRockGlossPrincessx You have no obligation to say anything to him; if she's accepting the situation, then that's their marriage dynamic. Sounds like her options are to stay, or go if it bothers her.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@bijouxbroussard Okay thanks. :)

bijouxbroussard · F

@xRockGlossPrincessx Best wishes to you. It sounds like a miserable situation. Your father's being royally selfish and irresponsible. 😞

walabby · 61-69, M

Stay out of it. It won't have any effect on his behavior other than get you into trouble. You and sis should go live somewhere else as soon as you can, maybe?

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@walabby Why should we move though?

walabby · 61-69, M

@xRockGlossPrincessx You shouldn't if you don't want to...

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xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@SW-User Well I thought because she's his wife and he'll probably lie too.

SW-User

Let me do it. I'll pimp slap the sheeeyyaaiiittt outta him too if he's lookin for trouble 😐

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@SW-User He needs a waking up and a reality check for real!

SW-User

@xRockGlossPrincessx forreal, don't be afraid to voice yourself!

ScarletWitch · 26-30, F

I would definitely tell your mother. Oh wait. U did?

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@ScarletWitch I did tell her.

ScarletWitch · 26-30, F

As a mother and wife she needs to stand up for her family. Not let others do it for her. She's gone to far to let her relationship fail.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@ScarletWitch I'll try and tell her that... thanks. She just allows him to do it and doesn't bat an eye.

lisaf04 · F

sorry its your moms responsibility not yours

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@lisaf04 Why do you say that?

lisaf04 · F

@xRockGlossPrincessx because she it the adult. she is the one in a husband wife relationship not you.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@lisaf04 Oh

SaintAdelaide · 31-35, F

It's not your responsibility, why is your mother placing this burden in you?

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@SaintAdelaide Well my sister and I are the ones who found out so I think that's why.

Northwest · M

If your mom is aware of it, and you're aware of it, then I don't know how it's cheating. What you're saying, is that he's leaving your mom for another woman. That is unless the woman in question, is married or in a relationship, and her partner is not aware of it.

xRockGlossPrincessx · 26-30, F

@Northwest He's not leaving her, just having relations with another woman.

Northwest · M

@xRockGlossPrincessx Yes, but it seems as if everyone is aware of it, so it's an open relationship. If your mom doesn't like the situation, she should work on getting out. I realize it's not an easy thing to do, but with a proper plan, and support from friends and family, she can recover and move on with her life.