I Need to Vent

Go there to be the bigger person.

Dress in all black to spite. 😈

Yeah, that's tough. I'm estranged from a lot of my extended family so I understand some of the stress of having people try to pop back into your life when it's convenient for them.

Maybe his decision to take such a big step in his life has given him some perspective. Maybe talk to him some more and see why he wants you there. There might be some chance that he regrets not reaching out sooner and wants to make amends.

Ultimately, you know him best and you should do what's right for you. You're not obligated to go just because he's family.

Since he reached out to you after all this time that shows he at least wants you there and that it’s important to him.

Sad when family doesn't get along. And it's almost always over something petty.

Make it easy on yourself. Play the game. Go, act the part of the loyal sister, try to find something other than the wedding to enjoy in the area. The trouble it will cause with your family probably outweighs the stress and slight sense of hypocrisy of attending.

I don't get along with my siblings but if they were getting married I would still go unless they're legit pieces of shit

Who the hell still uses Facebook?

If you don't go will you regret it?

Hold your head high.

Be better and go for your family.

just go.

You should go. Maybe you’ll meet someone there. It could be fun.