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lasergraph · 70-79, M
Bedroom athletics is not unlike other athletics. No one starts out as a marathon runner, they start with short runs and then keep practicing until they get better. The secret to improvement however lies in knowing you need to improve. The runner knows not he has problems if no one takes the time to tell him he needs work on some aspect. Practice and communicate. He will learn in time (hopefully), that like a good racecar, a woman needs he motor warmed up before the big race.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
You need to tell him what you want.
Like2play · M
You assume it’s him. @MrBrownstone
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@Like2play Because I’ve read her other posts.
Mistakesmakeus · M
Sex isnt everything in a relationship
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Mistakesmakeus · M
@DonaldTrumpet it literally was her boss! He said that he has to replace her with someone with more experience. And that guy didnt know how to put a car on a hydraulic lift let alone do an oil change! I put the guy to the test and he crashed my truck while backing out.
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@Mistakesmakeus u is a NiCEZ GuYz
Mistakesmakeus · M
@DonaldTrumpet he crashed ny truck.. I ended up having him pay me for a new toyota tundra so i still win in the end. And besides i was her APPRENTICE
PoetryNEmotion · F
Have you both sat down and discussed this? You have to start somewhere intimately. Start small. With kisses. Talk about how it feels. Proceed slowly. The goal is not an orgasm or some wild thing you have heard happens. It is about caring and sharing. And what feels good. It grows with time especially at your age. It doesn't have to be complicated. Intimacy and sex is fun and enjoyable. Just try that. I am reading your answers. If you have no chemistry, you cannot make it. Either you want to pleasure him or you don't. Same with him. Start there.
Quizzical · 46-50, M
Try doing it in the kitchen instead...
You have access to the fridge in there 😉
You have access to the fridge in there 😉
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
You gotta teach him
blindbob · 41-45
@SkeetSkeet this is probably the most honest reply of all. you've got to unteach him all the crap he learned from porn.
Pfuzylogic · M
Are you distracted in your thoughts?
Pfuzylogic · M
@Quizzical
I think she is serious.
I think she is serious.
Quizzical · 46-50, M
@Pfuzylogic Oh, I'm sure she is... And in a way so was I.
If things are going a bit stale then spice things up (not literally as that stuff burns)
Different venues, different positions, introducing things like toys or food etc.
If things are going a bit stale then spice things up (not literally as that stuff burns)
Different venues, different positions, introducing things like toys or food etc.
kayoshin · 36-40, M
Talk about it and try to fix it. Hoping it will get better by itself never works (or if it does you should start wondering who coached him :D )
Livingwell · 61-69, M
The struggle is real for many of us. Different reasons too the the result is the same - a void..
blindbob · 41-45
what's he (or you) doing wrong?
Death · 22-25, F
Exactly
Larold99 · 41-45, M
There's more to it then being good in bed
Elegy · 46-50
Is it on account of all the mortality?
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
Never a good sign.
dondon · M
What are you missing?
HeyRouben · 41-45, M
Talk talk talk
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Have you had a talk about what you want and like? Men can be a bit clueless at times. Does he take his time with you?
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
Is He FuXinGz someone elsE oR is he gay LadY BOi?
Montanaman · M
It's been 6 months, have things improved?
jaymic64 · M
That’s not good.