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I Am Hurt

I am hurt and a bit gobsmacked . People know how much I value all my friends trust .Someone I thought was a friend just told me she doesnt trust me .We have been chatting back and forth for 2 plus years and tonight she was telling me what she was wearing and I commented how nice she must look and asked her to send me a pic .She told me she couldnt , and when I asked why ,she told me that she didnt trust me .I was so shocked I havnt messaged back , I dont know what to say or how to feel .I have never had a friend say that to me .

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updown2020 · 61-69, M

Well the question is if she cannot answer you why she cannot trust you then just disregard what she say's because one when have facturaul info for not trusting someone. And maybe she is not who she claims to be so the her idea was to say something odd. And a if someone send a photo it stays up as all as they want you to have it. I mean they can take it down anytime and the person they send it to also going down. But I guess it does not stop someone from copying and pasting it somewhere else.

WatercolourWildFlowers · 51-55, F

Of course you will feel hurt, when you value trust. But not everyone will develop that sense of trust in the same way you do. I have no context to put your friendship into to make comment but I know from my personal experience with online friendships, you just can never really know. Just recently I was ghosted after nearly 2 years of friendship and I am still confused what happened.

SW-User

It is what it is I guess. You know where you stand on photos. She didn't want to send one.

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