I Hate Arguing And Fighting

I really hate it. What bothers me most is that I have a friend who I can't seem to stop arguing and fighting with. I feel like I'm trying to keep things ok but it seems like no matter what I do, the result is always the same. We are good for a few days, then we have this huge argument and we both get upset and nothing either of us say seems to make things better. I really love this friend, but I know it can't go on like this. Is it just time to pack it in?