Been together almost 11 yrs and we have been separated for the last 3 yrs. It still hurts. I still find myself thinking about him. Hes moved on and I have too but I still envision us being together when we see our daughter again . I love him more because he is her father. However we destroyed our marriage and almost destroyed each other.. Who knows 20 yrs from now God could bring some closure for us. Hopefully we can be friends.