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I Am Feeling Heartbroken

I always told myself that I wasn't going to let guys break my heart in high school. I thought high school relationships were stupid and didn't mean anything. But then I caught feelings for this boy. He told me he loved me. I fell so hard for him. The whole time I kept telling myself I needed to stop and be smart because it wouldn't last. I was selfish though and kept talking to him. The worst part is, I actually believed I would marry him. I never wanted kids or anything, but I wanted it with him. I was so willing to do whatever he wanted and give up my own dreams.

I hate myself everyday for letting myself fall for him. It hurts so bad now that it's over. I lost my best friend.
schizosaint · 41-45, F
Love deeply but dont give up your common sense. You cannot truly love another until you also love yourself. Stay true to your own dreams and desires too dont just throw them out the window for someone else, thats silly. Im sorry you are heart broken over his loss Grieve but dont grieve too deeply....go and make yourself a warm cup of hot chocolate take a hot bubble bath give yourself as much Tender loving care as u can....Im praying for you.
@schizosaint thank you so much.
mistyknox · F
It feels so good to be loved you can't help but lose yourself. Then it all ends and you are left to wonder what you did wrong. Then the next time comes and you try harder and lose more of yourself. Finally it just becomes not worth it
SW-User
Trust me I know it sucks and this wont make it feel any better, but heartbreak seems to be the best way to learn.
MeritsForEffort1 · 100+, M
Dude coming from a guy avoid us at all costs
Been there. It gets better though
SW-User
@Quoththeraven Yup. Time heals all wounds.
SW-User
I know it's a cliche... but you'll find another and better friend. Really... we get over broken hearts that are based on boyfriend/girlfriend issues...
496sbc · 36-40, M
Shame. Its hard ik. I fell for a few girls my self. Totally rejected me. And still to this day.
mathsman · 70-79, M
No, he wasn't your best friend,nor it wouldn't be over
Pdad49 · M
It is a part of maturing! You will love again!
ImIndian · 26-30, M
I can understand.
ImIndian · 26-30, M

 
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