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I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Valentines Day always makes me sad..I get a token card and candy but never anything romantic or thought put into it..I hate watching other men buy things for their wives or seeing some women get beautiful flowers ..bitter I suppose.
I'm considered to be a beautiful woman to others but yet like some stories go my husband doesn't see me nor do I know that I want him to because I'm not fully in love with him ..I hope this isn't always my story
dmc313 · 36-40, M
It's the beginning of the end for you two.
Cinderella · 46-50, F
I to wonder if this is all I have to look forward to
ili1981 · 41-45, M
Have you ever tried to speak with him?to tell him how you feel?
Sheislost · 46-50, F
For 16 years..he hears me but just doesn't do anything different ..
ili1981 · 41-45, M
That's sad,if you love him and you believe that the situation can change keep trying but if you are unhappy and the situation not changing I don't know...leaving is not nice but is your life and should be happy...
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Sheislost · 46-50, F
Very true but kinda sad..
RainBisou · F
Your still writing it, stay positive and strong. Lots of book to write.
jim44444 · 70-79, M
You mentioned in a comment that he has been this way for 16 years. You cannot change him. Only he can change himself bUT it is highly unlikely. You should prepare an exit plan with help of a lawyer, develop a support network and then give him the news.
If you do not then this will always be your story.
tacomasr5 · 51-55, M
Oside77 · 46-50, M
Seems like a struggle. Bitter for no flowers but not sure you want him to notice you...
Maybe you have spent so long being hurt, that you have put up a defense.
MightySizeQueen · 36-40, F
Well, if you are "not fully in love with him," then why expect him to give a shit? Honey, it's a two way street, not one.

Get a divorce, problem solved...
That's really awful I won't give advice because you probably have weighed all your options as I have
Sheislost · 46-50, F
Very much..I'm actively working on it though ..Thank You
Vegasfor30 · 61-69, M
It's a sad place to be in life. Trust me, have been there for many years. Sorry someone else has to go through same thing.
tacomasr5 · 51-55, M
❤💞🌹 Happy Valentines
tacomasr5 · 51-55, M
@Sheislost: thank you, I hope this cheered you up a little :)
Sheislost · 46-50, F
It did thank you
tacomasr5 · 51-55, M
@Sheislost: Good big smile here
Stephen91 · 31-35, M
Message me sweetie
KnightRanger · 56-60, M

 
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