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Trust and Respect [I Feel So Alone]

Trust and respect should be present in a relationship for it to be healthy, right? I do trust him but my gut is telling me otherwise.


I had my doubts but it never bothered me until early this year. I have a strong feeling that my partner is cheating on me, from little lies and turning the blame on me. I have been waking up in the middle of the night, having a vision of him sleeping with someone else. But today was my breaking point, I heard his brother telling him it's about time that he gets laid (maybe they did it las night) And him shouting “She suck” repeatedly. Forgetting our call was open, he went into the room realizing that I can hear them. He ended the call shortly after.

How could someone tell you that they plan to marry you and do an act like this?

I normally confront him with everything. I wanted us to be transparent with everything. But now, I can either act dumb and just go with the flow or cut all connections from him?
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Sounds like it may be time for you to move on to someone better
Menetics · 26-30, F
@ExperienceDLT It’s easier said than done. With how our life is intertwined right now, it's not easy.
@Menetics I understand but do not let anyone mistreat you or use you like a doormat if he is cheating and being dishonest then you deserve better
Menetics · 26-30, F
@ExperienceDLT You’re right. Thank you.
@Menetics you are welcome
Oneofthestormboys · 100+, M
@Menetics I promise you, however intertwined you are now, it’s absolutely nothing compared to how it would be if you were married and (God forbid) children are involved. Please trust me on this. I know from bitter experience. I promise you that one day you’ll look back and wonder why you didn’t move on sooner. That’s what I would definitely have done if I could relive the past.
Menetics · 26-30, F
@Oneofthestormboys Thank you for sharing your experience. Your advice is greatly appreciated. I'll try to do what I can.