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Trust and Respect [I Feel So Alone]

Trust and respect should be present in a relationship for it to be healthy, right? I do trust him but my gut is telling me otherwise.


I had my doubts but it never bothered me until early this year. I have a strong feeling that my partner is cheating on me, from little lies and turning the blame on me. I have been waking up in the middle of the night, having a vision of him sleeping with someone else. But today was my breaking point, I heard his brother telling him it's about time that he gets laid (maybe they did it las night) And him shouting “She suck” repeatedly. Forgetting our call was open, he went into the room realizing that I can hear them. He ended the call shortly after.

How could someone tell you that they plan to marry you and do an act like this?

I normally confront him with everything. I wanted us to be transparent with everything. But now, I can either act dumb and just go with the flow or cut all connections from him?
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Oneofthestormboys · 100+, M
In my experience, gut feeling can be extremely accurate. The little subconscious things start adding up, and finally convince you.
I’m sorry that you’re going through this - it isn’t nice.
Menetics · 26-30, F
@Oneofthestormboys You’re right. It’s only recently that I’ve been feeling this.
Oneofthestormboys · 100+, M
@Menetics Be confident in yourself, move on and put it down to experience.
Don’t let it define you because it’s not your failing x
Menetics · 26-30, F