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I Am Unloved

I don't think that he loves me anymore. He is never happy with me. He has high expectations for me but I can't meet any of them, yet he seems to think that he is always serving me when he's not. He swears at me and is quick to lose his temper with me...whenever I ask him for something he always angrily answers no! Even when I'm enjoying myself and I look over to him he always has this not interested grumpy look on his face....He always gangs up against me when other people are bashing me. I honestly think he hates me or doesn't love me anymore....or is this his way of punishing me for something?
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Have you tried discussing his grouchy attitude with him? What does he say?

If he won't undergo an attitude adjustment, it's time to distance yourself.
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SW-User
Sounds like something is up with him and it is not a good something. The main thing is are you happy being treated this way?
Life is way too short for that....start making yourself independent of him...maybe then he will get the message..good luck chantal
Raffie · 61-69, F
Sounds like the beginning of domestic violence....it is time to close the door and walk away. Sorry!
doctorlove · M
Doesn't sound healthy. I hope you find better days ahead.
ajsk13 · 51-55, M
i'd confront him about it
saintsong · 41-45, F
I have many times.
ajsk13 · 51-55, M
what is the response?
Dreammmer · 56-60, M
Does he know how you feel and think, how it affects you? To me it looks like you both need help and time to talk about this. If your husband has an issue with you gaining weight... come on, that is insulting. He did not marry a body. He promised to love and cherish you, didnt he? How do you feel about him today?
Has things changed since you gained 65 lbs, and growing, and your Latuda anti-psychotic medication?
So he sorta thinks you're not the person he met and fell in love with? That must be very hard, especially if the weight gain is tied to the medication.
saintsong · 41-45, F
@VeronicaJane: I gained 10 lbs as soon as I started the latuda and have been gaining ever since, he always says you used to be my hot and sexy wife. My avatar is a picture of me when I was 30, now I'm 36 and look very different, same hair same face, but my body is well rounder.
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silkandlace · 46-50, M
Dear God, i hope I'm not that with my wifey; many many problems lately, but i LOVE her Always......😥
Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M
This sounds so unfair.
Shawnkautzman1 · 51-55, M
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saintsong · 41-45, F
@SWTHN: it all started when I started gaining weight from my meds! Its true I can't function without them both for my peace of mind and my hearts health. But I have decided to wean myself off of one medication in hopes to lose the weight
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