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I Have Divorced Parents

You know.. It is really annoying when your mom falls in love with a new man and my father sees her since that time as a monster.
When your father says: I know you want to stay at your stepmoms home but later she wants money from you to live in her house etc.

And then you have a mother who is annoyed about your dad and always complains how incompetent and bad he is. That he wanted to leave her when she was pregnant etc.

What would you do?
They are both your parents dear.. hahaha
Arrow17 · 46-50, F
Dear Chloe,


I hope you would try to keep peace with your step mom. This is for your dad sake. Dont give your dad depression between you and step mom. That is not supporting his career. If your dad earns good money he will give you a better life.

I can tell you this because I have a son live with my husband. I remarry a very good man but my son is not his. They both get on very well because I keep them both in peace.
See I have a half brother. He is just like my real brother too.
And he is just often at his job and doesn't do much with us.

It is just a difficult situation. No idea

My mom wanted that he cared more about her and be more romantic. He always said stuff like: This woman is strong enough she doesn't need help from me. And that annoyed her because she had to do everything
Arrow17 · 46-50, F
Chloe,

Your dad makes a big mistake to treat woman like that. I dont blame your mom left your dad. I feel so sorry for you and your step mom because the way he neglects both of you.

Thanks God, I have a very supportive husband. I pray when you grow up you will get a supportive partner or spouse. Please, choose the right one.
Thank you
awebventure · 46-50, M
A twisted family life growing up as a child made me determined to fight for a loving family life of my own. Still fighting...
Arrow17 · 46-50, F
How is your relationship with step mom?

Give her present on birthday, christmas or special occasion. This is only to show that you care about her.

Tell her, you are not her enemy or competiter. As long she makes your dad happy, you feel happy too.

A man needs a good woman to support their career. So dont feel discouraged because your dad remarry.
She is like a real mom to me. She has been raising me since I was 4 years old.
She is more a mom to me than my real dad a dad if that makes sense. He is never at home.
Arrow17 · 46-50, F
Tell your mom stop talking bad about your dad.


Ask your dad to treat you fairly and do not only take side on your step mom.

Could you get a part time job? In the UK, 16 year old is counted as an adult. You can go to work get a full time job after finish high school but I dont know about your country regulation.
Yes that is a really great idea. I will tell her this.

No I don't only listen to my step mom. I try to be impartial and just to listen to what they want to tell me. I think this is stuff they should solve but not their child.

i know that my mom wouldn't want money from me or anything. And I know my father would help me.
It ia just that he sees her now as really bad.

But yes here in Germany it is similar I think. Just I have a mini job right now (handball coach) That takes time.
Youwish4me · 22-25, F
I loved growing up with my Dad
livesincar · 41-45, M
christ i dont know. you caught in middle it seems. try to learn what real love is and you probably wont find yourself in similar mess later. seems that most have a real problem with that though.
Yes, my biggest wish is to have a family where the people just love each other. A strong family.
I don't know this from my family. Here we play bad mind manipulating games.
livesincar · 41-45, M
age does not define maturity. many children are more grown up than their parents. it seems to be forced on them but true. no one that cares for someone hurts them on purpose and if they do they are genuinely sorry. mind games in my family to. to much drama. like days of our lives or as the world turns.then people are hurt and distracted and no good comes from it. everyones feelings matter and are important. never let someone down play your concerns. peace out.
yes I think like you too.
Now my father is home and he expects that I act like an adult.
He will move out of the house now it is sure.
And he expects that I give my mom money and manage that with her like for living in her house.
I mean I try to be really matured and all that but right now i feel like someone just put me and made me fall into this adult being stuff.
And I ask myself why so fast.
Margaret · 56-60, F
This woman I know is a monster
And can't even keep a store clean
And makes fun of everyone else

This woman is a true monster though

 
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