I know how that feels.

I can completely understand that

@oneofthestormboys ] sorry to here this must feel like you are banging your head against the wall trying to keep the peace . diplomacy is a difficult game to play alas have you tried to sit down with them both and tried to discuss it and resolve whatever issues there are

That is true most times. Suggestions and advice are pretty much ignored when people are set on doing what they're doing.

I tried that a long time ago. Now I just grab a bag of popcorn.

If you love them deeply it’s brutal ... hope it sorts itself out smoothly as pos