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I may get a lot of flack for this!

I am used to getting flack. I been here since 2013 except it was EP then. The people who tried to shoot me out of the sky have long gone and I am still here.
About me first. I am Blodyn. I am a girl. I do not have a boyfriend but would love to have one. I think that means I am straight.
I have friends who are gay. They are friends. Please do not read any thing into that. Friends I speak to lots. Friends I would do anything for and they would for me. Friends.
With me so far? Well there are three types of men who contact me here in SW. Men who want to know what knickers I am wearing. Mostly middle aged. May already have a wife or partner.
Secondly, younger men who know to just be friends. And many older men are like that. Maybe happy with their partners.
Thirdly gay men. My best friend on this site is gay. We have talked for years. Not one hint of sexual attraction. We chatter away as friends. He is my oldest friend. But he feels unwelcome on this site. I don't know what makes people gay but I am prepared to accept that there is a gender spectrum and that not everyone fits neatly into the slots of being girl or boy.
It seems to me that many people just reject people for being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender because they are different. Not because they have thought about why this may be. And why are transgender people listed with LGB anyway. What's it got to do with it.
Before I wax too lyrical, just accept people for who they are. Please. If you can't, please do a bit of research before you reject people for their gender, their colour, their age or for any other way they are different to you.
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SW-User
I’m bisexual and honestly it’s never been an issue - here or the real world. It annoys me that people do get hassle - why should anyone else have an opinion on your sexual preferences- I just don’t get it
Blodyn · 22-25, F
@SW-User Thank you for replying. I don't think in the real world it bothers people that much but is this the real world?
SW-User
I don’t think you can ever take anything said online too seriously. Having said that if it becomes harassment you just block and move on. @Blodyn
Blodyn · 22-25, F
@SW-User I know. I have been sad to block some. Boys, nice boys, who restricted my freedom.