One thing that's hard for me to understand with transpeople is when they dont act like the gender they identify with.

Like when transwomen play with knives and weapons like a boy does lol i knew one transwoman who had a switch blade and kept taking it out and playing with it a couple different times while they were at my house. Nothing against them, but i never see cis women playing with their knifes all time lol. Jus like this transman i know who lets every little thing stress him out and is super dramatic like a woman lol. I know this is asshole thing to say but if you want to identify as a different gender and want people to refer to you as said gender, than try to act like the said gender.