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How to tell my friend im bi?

I need to know the best way to tell my friend im bi, im really nervous.
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
🤣🤣🤣🤣☺️☺️@SW-User
@SW-User thats a unique way lol
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helen60 · 51-55, F
make a comment about something gay or bi and listen to his reaction then decide your next move
helen60 · 51-55, F
@JamesConnors just be carefull then, and take it slowly
@helen60 i will
helen60 · 51-55, F
@JamesConnors and let us know how it goes
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@SW-User if only it was that simple
Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
I told my current boyfriend that I am bi straight away. Well it was early on in our first few conversations. I do understand how nervous about you are. Just take your time and pick a comfortable moment.
@Sroonaka616 what did you argue about?
Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
He just didn't like the fact that I wasn't completely gay. That I still like girls.
@Sroonaka616 yeah bisexuals can get judgement from straight and gay people
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Just say it. In this day and age nobody cares anyway.
@Keepitsimple thats true
SW-User
@Keepitsimple I agree with this it doesn't mean that people prejudices can't hurt.
@SW-User this is also true
SW-User
yeah I had the same problem. they were shocked at first but they were happy for me.
@SW-User how old were you when you told them
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@SW-User thats cool
benJohnson99 · 18-21, M
yes its difficult I should know but if he is a true friend he will accept your feelings and be there for you x
@benJohnson99 i hope he will be
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
Are you nervous that your friend will reject you?
@Lackwittyname nope hes never used any terminology like that, he has shown a dislike to gay couples out in public but hes never used any homophobic terms
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@JamesConnors Hm, well I think it is worth the risk and telling him. If he has an aversion maybe him having a friend that is bi will make him realize it is not all bad. Again though, make it clear you are not hitting on him, that could threaten him if he is not tolerant.
@Lackwittyname i think im just going to use the gay NFL players route and go from there
Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
It took me ages to talk to my best friend about me being bi. What took me even longer was to tell him I had a crush on him. We are still good friends we just avoid that subject matter whenever we talk.
@Sroonaka616 damn that mustve been hard for you to do
Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
It was but I knew he would be understanding.
@Sroonaka616 thats good, im glad you are still friends
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
Go get some drinks together and when you're both relaxed enough you say it.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@JamesConnors well if you consider him a friend you won't hit on him
@HannibalAteMeOut well alcohol can make you do crazy things lol
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@JamesConnors you don't have to get drunk, just drink a bit, that's all.
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@BigbangFACTS booty man?
@JamesConnors yea search for booty man fleece johnson on youtube
@BigbangFACTS ok i will lol
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The only thing you can Is just come out with it and tell him no point heating around the bush so to speak.
@SW-User its not that easy, every time i try i back out and get too scared
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@JamesConnors I guess it's not and I've never been in a situation like that. But sounds like you're causing yourself anxiety building up to it. So the sooner you get this off the chest the better for you.
wackidywack · 22-25
take a breath, count to three, say it quickly !
@wackidywack i take a breath, count to three and i still cant get the words out
wackidywack · 22-25
@JamesConnors aw okay, I understand you're nervous but this is you. If he's a friend, a real one, he'll accept you for you. Good luck bud !
@wackidywack im really hoping he does and thanks dude
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maybe find a way to casually bring up the topic and gauge his reaction first? that might make you more comfortable
@SW-User we have never spoken about anything like that before so bringing up that topic may be the best way to see how he feels about the whole thing
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If that's you in the picture you better eat your broccoli and do your homework
@SW-User it is me in the picture but its an old picture lol
Honestly, for m the heart ,if hes i s a true friend he will understand!
@Childnomore thank you
Mickeymouse123 · 18-21, M
Just do like I did just tell your friends look I'm gay and if you don't like it I'm sorry

 
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