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Why Won't My Parents Accept Me?

I tried to come out to my mom about a year ago and she doesn't seem to support me because the next time she talked to me about it was 6 months later and all she said was "Are you still having those feelings" I answered with silence and turned around and walked out the front door and came back the next day and to this day I hint on it and she just doesn't get me or just doesn't accept me for who I am 😭
ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M Best Comment
I feel bad,, My nephew came out to me before he even spoke to his father(my brother) and I love that kid like he was my own... his father only cared about who is going to carry on the family name,, sad !! I took my nephew in for a few years and made sure he had a proper education and a great job..Now he is living on his own and doing his own thing.. me and my brother talk and my brother still feels I should not have interfered... I asked him about unconditional love ,, and his answer was it only happens in Hollywood... I really feel bad for him and I pray for those that don't understand that you can't stop your heart from loving
Fall3nSerenity · 22-25, T
@ChatterinSeuss Thank you.
There is such a thing as unconditional love but the right circumstances don’t line up for everyone. @ChatterinSeuss

She has been there for 18-21 years and see's someone else.
Fall3nSerenity · 22-25, T
@Pitchblue Yes I actually have for the last few years, I know what they feel....my mother said right to my face telling me "Oh it's just a phase, you will grow out of it" that was the day the hatred started
@Fall3nSerenity Who hates who?????
Fall3nSerenity · 22-25, T
@Pitchblue Apparently my mom.....
SW-User
You dont need her acceptance.Sure it's nice but you dont need her approval :)
Fall3nSerenity · 22-25, T
@SW-User I just don't want to lose my family 😭
SW-User
@Fall3nSerenity I dont think you will lose them.As you become an adult you will go on your own path.They likely wont accept many things along the way.Which is why you need to be your big support person now.
Reject · 26-30, M
Parents come from a very different generation than you. They didn't have a choice growing up and learned to live with that. So it makes sense that a lot of them won't understand.
Fall3nSerenity · 22-25, T
@Reject Yes, but every person gets support in hard times.
Reject · 26-30, M
@Fall3nSerenity Not every person. Sometimes we have to support ourselves.
Fall3nSerenity · 22-25, T
@Reject True, Thanks.
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ItsRichard · M
Your parents should love you know matter who you are, you are being honest. I wish people can be accepting of this love who you are be happy being you, you only live once don’t hide it other wise you will never be happy.
76starships · 46-50, M
I’m sorry to hear it. It may take them a while to understand. It’s hard for them, too. But, I’m sure they love you. Be patient with them and keep exploring who you are.
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
sad your parents should love you no matter what
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
@Pitchblue I have kids her age.I would make sure I understood.Most importantly,tell them I accept them no matter what
Yes, I understand but there are the people who do not understand.
Parents are just people and they’re not perfect. @Butterflykisses24
puppy123 · 18-21, M
it's very sad when your parents can accept you for who you are and I hope she accept you for who you are someday
They probably just don’t understand.

 
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