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Do you find it hard finding other gay girls/guys in your area or is it just me

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bijouxbroussard · F

I live in the San Francisco Bay Area. The [b]definitive[/b] LGBTQ community is here. 🏳️‍🌈

Littlelegskate · 26-30, F

@bijouxbroussard looks like I'm moving then

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Deadcutie · 18-21, F

no, as a necrosexual, The dead come easy to find, infact they show up in my refrigerator almost everyday. The hard part is finding one young cute and fresh that isn’t fucked up in a car wreck or something... as far as orientation is concerned, I don’t ask, they don’t say, nor do I care.

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Deadcutie · 18-21, F

@Littlelegskate yeah, to many old fat people die, not enough young ones.. what happened to the live fast die young mentality

Littlelegskate · 26-30, F

@Deadcutie well I can’t speak for anyone else but I’d rather live long enough to retire and get my pension I’ve been paying 😂

Deadcutie · 18-21, F

@Littlelegskate I don’t blame you one bit

barbershoplover · F

No sweetie it’s not just it hard to find people that share the same thing

RemovedUsername619397 · 26-30, M

I dunno I'm not searching. I try to get close to male friends and see if it would interest them to do something if I think they could.

anythingoes477 · M

Not terribly surprising. Though the push in the media--TV---etc. is to make it look like 99% of society is gay--in fact only 4% of society identifies as such. If you look around your area---4% is not many people relatively speaking. Now add---is this one or that one appealing? Available? It really narrows your selection.

kutee · T

@anythingoes477 its 20% mot peopel never come out

anythingoes477 · M

@kutee So 2 out of every 10 people in every city across America and around the world are gay? Is that what you'd actually like us to believe? Get real.

kutee · T

@anythingoes477 yes, hence why so many marriages dont work, why men go to certian forrests ot have sex wiht men, why public toilets are fullof gy men having sex, its secret

anythingoes477 · M

Hard to imagine isn't it? If you listen to a gay person inevitably they will tell you 30-40% of America is gay. That means every 3rd and 4th person you pass on the street out of every 10 people is gay. And movies and TV tell us how common it is and how "EVERYONE is gay nowadays"..............and yet gays can't find other gays??? Odd, huh? Especially considering how ever 3rd and 4th person out of 10 people are supposedly onboard with being gay too. Someone must be lying, huh?

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ladycae · 100+, F

@anythingoes477 like i said i wouldn't expect a straight guy to understand.

anythingoes477 · M

[big][/big]@ladycae I understand facts. I don't care if you're gay. But why exaggerate that just EVERYONE is?? "Everyone" isn't--by a long shot.

ladycae · 100+, F

@anythingoes477 no everyone isn't by a long shot and i never said that

SoggedNapped · 31-35, M

IT's hard.. :(

ladycae · 100+, F

i wish i knew more people or anyone gay in my area. no bars, groups, potlucks, nothing. it was a really hard adjustment moving here.

Fernie · F

@ladycae Back in the 60's and 70's the Gay and Lesbian "communities" were amazing. We were so connected. It's empty now...superficial and separate. Sad

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Littlelegskate · 26-30, F

I remember, although I found it easier in skl @Gabbs18

Fernie · F

There are Gay organizations everywhere

lonelybigirl · F

I live in a small town and have to go to a city to fin a club whee I feel comfortable

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lonelybigirl · F

@Alexandru1990 gay clubs are the best lot of fun dancing and craziness! be ready for after parties!

Littlelegskate · 26-30, F

@lonelybigirl 'eyyy same here well about an hour half but always worth the wait

lonelybigirl · F

Some good music make the trip go faster!😉

SW-User

Think it's easier for guys to hook up..

Alexandru1990 · 31-35, M

Hard in my country they hate gay here :(. I live in a small town with 9000 peoples. If I will say thatbi gay i will be beaten here by homophobic persons. I hate sometimes my country.