I Am a Thinker Do you find possessiveness attractive in a mate?

ItsAir · 36-40, M

To a certain extent, yes. It makes me feel wanted

Wiiiiiiiiii · 51-55, M

Depends on wether it is a smothering possessiveness.

Raffie · 61-69, F

No, it can be quite smothering....

QueenOfSmiles · 46-50, F

Nope.

Bluewind · M

No, there is no need for it. It can show the person is insecure which is never good in a relationship

AllAboutLaffs · 70-79, M

If by "possessiveness" you mean insecure and clingy, then hell no !!

guyroberts · 41-45, M

Depends..

Yes

SW-User

Yes

ninjavu · 51-55, M

No.

Protectiveness in the right setting but not a lot of possessiveness like where jealousy is one of those big hurdles trust is often questioned etc