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I Will Talk To Anyone Who Wants To Talk To Me Or Needs Advice

Have you given advice and that person threw it completely back in your face, what shall I do my best friend won't listen 😥
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Let your friend learn her/his way. I know someone who keeps asking me for my advice, the same thing over and over and it gets annoying now because she is never going to listen.
ladycae · 100+, F
one thing that helps is waiting till they ask for advice, another is to realize that your advice is not an order. it is simply a suggestion. it is what you would do. but it might not be what they will do. when i want advice i go to several people i respect and trust. then i think on it and make the decision what i will do. i don't necessarily follow anyone persons advice and only i know me, my needs, my wants and my capabilities
There is nothing more you can do for your friend. Some people can only learn from experience. Rarely will anyone heed a word of advice, unless they have gone through it themselves. You can scream and shake your friend and they will still go and do exactly what you've advised against.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
Just let your friend make their mind up themselves and be there for them if things go wrong.Don't push too hard you will lose them
mercedes810 · 31-35, F
Oh yes, a lot. I still don't always know how to cope with it, I just leave it. If they don't want advice, I might as well shut up
chocolatecupcakes · 22-25, F
Nothing you can do except be there for them when things get messed up because they didn't listen
ukrainianladyxx · 26-30, F
@lady I'm 😡 Bc they asked so often and repeat there mistakes I only want to say I told you so now
ukrainianladyxx · 26-30, F
@falling do you mean point finger and say I told you so
Sepia · 36-40, F
Maybe she was suffocated by all things she's hearing give her time :).

 
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