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My mother died and had a lockdown funeral.

She didn't die of covid but I think she didn't get proper medical care. She kept having strokes and 'a bit of pneumonia' but not covid.

Pandemics suck.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F Best Comment
It’s difficult times we’re living through. It’s a shame how many deaths were caused by declined treatment as Covid was treated as the top priority last year. Even this year people being mislabeled with a sickness they don’t actually have. So many more dying alone. It’s heartbreaking to say the least. I’m deeply sorry for your mothers passing. There has been so much loss this year. I hope we will see its end sooner than later. 🖤
purplepen · 51-55, F
purplepen · 51-55, F
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit My Bear had to be taken to Emergency today. They are waiting for the covid test results but they are giving him supplemental oxygen and a few other meds. I just hope he recovers soon.

BlueVeins · 22-25
I'm very sorry dear.
purplepen · 51-55, F
@BlueVeins Thank you.
Peaches · F
I'm so sorry,😔💙sending healing prayers your way.🙏YES, we've been going through some difficult times and it feels good when we can all come together for the greater good of all.⭐
purplepen · 51-55, F
@Peaches Thank you for being kind.
Peaches · F
@purplepen Of course...just if we all were.😌💞
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
Hi the sand thing happened with my dad, 10 days in hospital before he died, we were not allowed to visit and his funeral was limited to just 15.
purplepen · 51-55, F
@MrAverage1965 Very sad! Sorry to hear that.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
@purplepen Thanks, sorry you had a similar experience.
Rutterman · 46-50, M
Very sorry for your loss. 🥀

I know how you feel, unfortunately, and attended a lockdown funeral for a family member in January.
purplepen · 51-55, F
@Rutterman thank you. Sorry for your loss too.
Rutterman · 46-50, M
@purplepen Thank you.
Oh, Lord, no...how horrible. I am so sorry that you were unable to be the advocate which you must have wished to be. 😣
purplepen · 51-55, F
@SomeMichGuy thank you. My brother in the UK advocated for her a lot, and each of us (her offspring) were asked for consent before she was put on morphine near the end. My sister in the US was keeping me updated. I said just give her whatever she needs.
@purplepen Wow...wish you could have travelled & seen her.

There are many in your band of sisters & brothers who have lost others during this horrible pandemic.
I'm very sorry for your loss. Sending much love for you and your family.
purplepen · 51-55, F
PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
Awww. That’s so sad. Sending my deepest sympathy to you and your family. 💖🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻
purplepen · 51-55, F
@PetiteJulie01 Thank you.
sciguy18 · M
Sorry

Had a lockdown funeral for my father.
purplepen · 51-55, F
@sciguy18 That's tough. My dad died a while ago so he was spared from these crazy times.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
I'm sorry for your loss dear.
purplepen · 51-55, F
@Pretzel Thank you.
I'm very sorry for your loss 😔.
purplepen · 51-55, F
@latinbutterfly thank you
BlueRain · F
I am so sorry. That is not fair.
purplepen · 51-55, F
@BlueRain Thank you.
I am sorry 😞
purplepen · 51-55, F
@ExperienceDLT Thank you. I didn't realize it was still messing me up, until I'd posted something on SW and it came out all wrong and hurt people.
@purplepen people grieve in different ways you didn't mean to hurt anyone the words just came out wrong probably
purplepen · 51-55, F
@ExperienceDLT Yes it came out horribly wrong. I'm going to give BA to the person who said what I meant to say instead.
AlyAngel · F
I am so sorry for your loss
purplepen · 51-55, F
@AlyAngel Thank you.
Im sorry that's so sad 🤗💗
purplepen · 51-55, F
@Cutiepi23 Thank you.
Nudistsue26 · 31-35, F
Sorry for your loss 🙏🙏🙏
purplepen · 51-55, F
@Nudistsue26 Thank you.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Im sorry to hear this. Too often medical care in institutions and hospitals just isin't up to par with what our loved ones deserve.
purplepen · 51-55, F
@REMsleep thank you

 
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