How close can you get to someone without getting too close?

Simple acts of kindness. Strange how that gets noticed even from a distance. You'll touch her heart from afar. She will know you and never even met you.

What is "too close"

I'm married and there was a girl at work I was very very close to. I was in love with her and I think she felt the same about me. If she had asked me I would have said yes...

Close enough to feel their vibes in their distant presence and absence, understand the unsaid in their expressed words.

That's always been my challenge. I start to care after a relatively short time.