Would you stay friend with such a person or not?

Some times the brother zone is better then no zone
later when she see's you have always been there but never pushed her for anything she will see you were the right one all along ,(ok if she has standards and does not let them use her )
I have a few female friends thats all we have ever been is close friends and I am cool with that .though some it did kill me to see them with a looser ,especially when he cheated on her and she was home alone waiting on him ,he is in the club with another bimbo ,I can't help but think she made her choice .
But one thing I am not cool with is one who is with every guy under the sun and then decides she wants me ,then its my turn to say "I think we should just remain friends "
Not wanting to be with someone everyone looks at her and thinks "yea I already had that "
and it does suck when they want to cry to you about everyone who has hurt them and you want to say "you could have had me ,but you choose them ,so sorry about your poor judgment "
I think sometimes they think they know you want them ,and if all else fails you will still be there
I have had a lot of woman tell me they regret letting me get away
now they know I would not have them if they were made of gold
but I can still be friends with them ,I don't hold hard feeling long
and I refrain from saying "I told you so " ,
except this one girl ,
I told her the guy she was going to date was with a girl I knew had aids ,
I told her if she dated him to never call me again ,,
She did ,and now keeps telling me she gets tested and she does not have aids
I stick to my guns ,I meant what I said ,
she made her choice ,she can play Russian Roulette if she wants ,not me
she is fine ,but I would not touch her with a 20 ft pole

I'd suggest that you're not really her friend at all. You didn't get what you wanted from her romantically/sexually so you're now considering not being her friend despite the fact that she sees you as her best friend. Here's a little lesson: being friends with women isn't a punishment and the friend-zone isn't a real thing.

If it's ok for you to ask, it has to be ok for her to say no.

Being one of her best friends doesn't mean you can crowd her, or that she always has to pick you when you push a choice.

You are not "friends." So far, at least, it is not a friendship; it is a failed courtship. And by your description of her behavior, and way of speaking, she is just not that mature. You can still have her in your life, but you will have to understand this is not really a friendship, it's you hoping she'll change her mind about you. This kind of person is unlikely to take you out of the friend zone at this stage of both of your lives. She sounds like the type who will decide you were the best guy she knew when she's hitting her late 20s and getting her first divorce. You could back off and wait until then....or just decide to continue to see her now and then but don't expect too much.

I've also been friend zoned. Honestly I think it's best to stay away from people like that.

Let it go. Reset.

give her a little space

Wanna know a secret? You don't need friends.

And... find someone else.

high school🙄