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Do you believe that not everyone deserves access to you?

I'm not talking about being egotistical but respecting yourself enough to understand that not everyone is deserving of what you have to offer as a human.
Abstraction · 61-69, M
In terms of support, I don't care who someone is or what they've done or where they've been. And I've lived this.

The only thing is I will protect my boundaries if they're not respected. That's the only barrier. I struggle a bit with the term 'deserves access' - but if that's what you meant, then yes.
BlueVeins · 22-25
I don't really believe anyone's below deserving me, but I try to cut bothersome people out just to protect myself.
4meAndyou · F
I believe that I don't need to have a mobile phone turned on all the time. THAT's how much I believe that not everyone deserves access to me.😉
SW-User
They don’t. People have to earn their Kai Card 😌
BlueVeins · 22-25
@SW-User Does it come with a free n-word pass?
SW-User
@BlueVeins 😅 It’s not free. You earn points by hanging out with me then you can cash them in for that or other rewards :P
SW-User
Absolutely. I won't allow anyone I feel is toxic to infect me. They can go f*ck themselves.
SW-User
In theory, yes. But I find it difficult to put into practice.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Yes. Some people are just not good or kind.
the cheque better clear..
I do. Sometimes it's better for someone to not be involved with you, especially if they are the easily jealous type.
SW-User
Yes I only give my time and energy to those who deserve it so I don't get taken for granted.
SW-User
Of course. Most people quickly learn not to open up to everyone
Fauxmyope2 · 26-30, F
Yes, I won’t waste my time with loathsome individuals.
summersong · F
Absolutely. It’s hard to set those boundaries but worth it.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Yeah... It's a little hard to keep in mind though
Sure, I had to cut some toxic people out of my life.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Absolutely, unequivocally yes!
in10RjFox · M
They should have access with certain qualification or checks. Even if they are disqualified it should not be a denial, but an opportunity for them to improve and attempt again.

For what I have to offer actually belongs to them but more precious than how they may evaluate it.
LAlexV · M
Yep. No one gets in.
I don’t trust easily enough for most people to have access.

 
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