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URGENT! My best friend is accusing me of being a animal killer supporter and I don’t understand why she is acting like this? Who’s wrong?

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My best friend is currently not speaking to me because she thinks I’m supporting people that kill animals to make fashion coats. I wanted to join the fashion show. She was excited for me until she looked at the fur coats. She suggested I shouldn’t sign up. I didn’t wanna miss a chance to be on the fashion show so I did with the permission from my dad. My beat friend went ballistic! She screamed, “Layla (me) HOW COULD YOU?!!” I apologized but I couldn’t miss out and it wasn’t HER place to tell me what to do. She yelled at me that that is cruelty to animals and I shouldn’t do the show. I asked her to stop yelling at me but she said, “Well I’m going to because you chose to do the show and you didn’t even think about MY FEELINGS!!!! WHY?! FUR COATS SHOULD NOT BE IN SHOWS AND YOU SHOULD HAD THOUGHT ABOUT MY FEELINGS!” She’s a vegetarian and been one for two years. She’s annoying. We got into a HUGE fight and she screamed, “I can’t support you! I DONT WANNA BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE THAT SUPPORTS ANIMAL CRUELTY!!!! That is WRONG!!!!!!!!!” She stormed of and started crying. It’s been a while and she still won’t talk to me. The fashion thing got cancelled due to COVID 19. She hasn’t spoken to me since April. She won’t text or call me back. What is her deal? I am not cruel to animals. Why is my friend acting like this?

Best friends are supposed to supporting each other. My other friend said I should see her point of view.l and then I’ll understand No way! My dad even said don’t after he found out later about the fur coat. He said, “What’s more important? A fashion show or a best friend? See her point of view.”
aspire · 31-35, M
See vegan, non vegetarian etc are individual choices. If something is universal and you only are doing it other way , then I will support her act. But for now I don't see any wrong with you.
If she wants to leave for you being into something she doesn't like, then you are not living your life, right? 🙂
So chill and your life matters to you. Be it career or personal.
Are either of you a vegetarian?
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@OogieBoogie She is
@AutismGirl18 does she do her nut everyday over you eating meat?

Personally - and it's only my opinion.... I get her ethics.. They are noble.
But if she can accept you as a meat eater, then this is just another aspect of the carnivore world.

I eat meat. Am not keen on fur beibg in the fashion industry, but wear leather on my bike.

Buy I'm not ginna hate on a friend because of it.

Friendship, true friendship is based not just upon what we love people for, but what we love people for in spite of what they are.

If she can't see past that - then 5hats not your problem 🤷‍♀️

Only my opinion.

 
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