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Is it normal for a guy who is just a friend to be be all lovey dovey with me?

I thought I made it clear, we are just friends. I even informed him I was seeing someone. He keeps telling me he loves me, though I never say it back. He calls me beautiful. He sometimes even refers to me as "my" Bernie. It feels creepy to me. I haven't said anything, but do you think I should, or am I making a big deal over nothing?
curiosi · 61-69, F
What's normal for the spider is chaos to the fly.
HannahSky · F
Sounds like he wants some.
@HannahSky sure does. Sounds like he is waiting for them to have an argument then pounce
DrWatson · 70-79, M
He seems to be taking your silence and passivity as approval. He won't change unless you tell him explicitly and firmly that you do not appreciate what he is doing and that he needs to stop.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
You're right in feeling that. He's trying to "convince" you.

IMHO you should avoid him and tell him to mind his business.
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
Let him know his is acting creepy. Let him know you're not comfortable with his affection.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
See my post about her words.@Groofydorkgerdo
english · 56-60, M
once they start crossing the lines, its only a matter of time before he really screws up , 🤔😕
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Your words are meaningless. Smart men don’t listen to a women’s words, they watch her actions. If you’re allowing this dude to hang and not shutting down the compliments, your actions tell him he has a chance. Again, your words are meaningless.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Huh?
You doubt that women say the opposite of what they mean like 75% of the time?
I was taught to believe actions, not words.
@NativeOregonian
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@AthrillatheHunt Hey dipshit, most women are also raised differently than men are and are not taught how to speak up for themselves so they don't know how to when they need to. Wet douchebag assholes like you need to learn to shut the fuck up.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
I can feel the passion in your words dude.
Now go suck a bag of dicks you fuckwad. Lol@NativeOregonian
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You unlock this door with the key of inactivity.
Beyond it is a purgatory of self doubt, what ifs, lotion, and greys anatomy reruns
You’re moving into a land of both shame and regret; of flea markets and dirty thoughts
You’ve just crossed over into...

The Friend Zone.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@RemovedUsername1005333 When a guy is friendzoned there is a reason why, and it must be respected.
MrMonnyPenny · 22-25, M
Sad. It would be better for you and him if you both distanced from each other. If I get a crush on a girl who I later find out has a boyfriend, I generally cut off that friendship and try to forget them.
Elisbch · M
Sounds to me like he's just ignoring your wishes hoping you'll change your mind 🤷‍♂️
BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
Oh that's creepy, he isn't respectful of u... get rid of him immediately
NativeOregonian · 51-55
Kick him to the curb, he is not respecting your boundaries, or you.
SW-User
You'll have to make it clear to him at some point.
Hell yeah you should
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
no that's really weird.

 
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