How to stop hanging out with a friend that makes poor life choices?

I have this guy friend. We hang out a lot but. I've noticed ever since I started hanging out with him 2yrs ago.I have put on a bit of weight.. He is a heavy guy which is why I just wanted to say friends I'm not physical attracted to him. But anyways all we do is drink .when we hang out and go get food I want to stop drinking because I think this could be the reason I've put on weight. The weight doesn't really look bad on me.

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Mamapolo2016 · F

Tell him what you just said and that the two of you need to find new “hanging out” activities. If he doesn’t want to change the itinerary, then he just wanted a drinking buddy.

Angeliclove · 26-30, F

@Mamapolo2016 like I just said I don't want a relationship with him. He is not my type.

Mamapolo2016 · F

@Angeliclove I didn’t say start a romantic relationship. Love and drinking are not the only two activities on earth.

Go for walks, go bowling, go to museums, volunteer somewhere. Challenge each other to make non-fattening meals instead of going to restaurants.

Aidan · 26-30

Urm just find someone else that keeps u more busy or get busy with hobbies

JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M

Do other things. If he wants to go, great. If not. Ok.

Don’t be a victim of someone else’s choices.

You decide what to do that doesn’t involve over indulging.

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Angeliclove · 26-30, F

@ShiftingGears that's what am thinking. It's seems like his life. Evolve around drinking. Smoking and eating he doesn't really do outdoor activities, I'm thinking about honestly cutting him off.

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