When do you give up, if the person continuously seeking your advice never heeds it??
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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
OMG i know this situation. after repeatedly comforting a girl (woman - she’s even older than i) after every heartbreaking breakup with her bf, and every time she would say “This is the Last straw!” she would ALWAYS take him back. ALWAYs. so i would feel like a loser for comforting her for hours, offering a place to say, telling her she’s better without him....i mean he did some really stupid things.
Well i told her i no longer wanted to hear her problems with the bf because she’s basically signing up for them and i can’t be bothered to waste my time and energy anymore. She stopped. And a few years (yes years) she finally did away with him for good. ... at least i hope - it’s only been a few months.
Well i told her i no longer wanted to hear her problems with the bf because she’s basically signing up for them and i can’t be bothered to waste my time and energy anymore. She stopped. And a few years (yes years) she finally did away with him for good. ... at least i hope - it’s only been a few months.
skmokisses · 46-50, F
@NiftyWhite It really is soul sucking behavior right??. Glad you finally put your foot down 😊
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
yeah it actually made me angry. i felt like at one point i was just being used. why tell me 7 times this this the LAST time? i got fed up! @skmokisses
skmokisses · 46-50, F
@NiftyWhite Yeah, At some point you just have to walk away.
Tminus6453 · M
skmokisses · 46-50, F
@Tminus6453 So irritating right?!??
Tminus6453 · M
@skmokisses Yes, very much
Dancingxghost · 36-40, M
skmokisses · 46-50, F
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@skmokisses if they aren’t listening by then, then they’re just gonna have to have life experiences and school of hard knocks
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