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What is it with people who keep bringing up something they have warned people about after everything is solved?

I have this business partner who keeps bringing up "I tried to warn everyone but no one listens to [Her name]." It's annoying. She's been getting away with a lot.

Yes I get I got with the Narcissist ex I was warned about. I got lured in. Pure and Naive I was, what the hell can one expect? I was vulnerable. She didn't grow up with me. Clearly I was with a Covert ex before that. And then this one was a Malignant/Somatic one. I'm tired.

I know what I got myself into I studied Narcissm more than she did through the situation and got myself out. She knows this. Why do I still hearing this???

I don't want to be the person hurt someone's feelings but hey it must be done so that they can gain some self awareness at least.
cheesenpickles · 26-30, F
Well, from the sounds of it, your friend has a reason to be concerned? Your track record is a bit sketchy.
Serene · 31-35, F
@cheesenpickles I grew up wasn't taught about relationships. I'm basically flung out there no basic knowledge of the dating life and had to learn the hard way. Her being concerned with me is never a problem. The problem is the whole martyr induced way of bringing things up. Like okay I'm the traumatized one and learning. Now I know who to not get in relationships with and see the signs
cheesenpickles · 26-30, F
@Serene I was raised by an overt narc father and co-dependent mother - so you can only imagine who I picked to date! LOL I had to learn what LOVE really looks like. I made a lot of mistakes and caused a lot of my friends concern. Be leery of people who like to hold your mistakes over your head. They are YOUR* mistakes to learn and grow from (NOT to be used as weapons against you). 🌞
Serene · 31-35, F
@cheesenpickles lol I hear ya! My parents are the same in that order. You got a point 😁
Serene · 31-35, F

 
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