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Is my oldest, closest friend even a real friend?

I have been friends with a girl I know for 8 years. I was there through her engagement and wedding, we were friends before they were together. After her marriage she has still invited me to come hang out with the two of them. Here is the problem: Whenever we run into certain other friends of theirs she always tells them that I am her husbands friend, she makes it sound as if I am not even her friend at all.

It just hurts my feelings and makes me feel bad, I want to ask her why she does it but I don't want to get in an argument with her.
Summersrain · 51-55, F Best Comment
Things change when you get married. She is still your friend but maybe has to create distance because of her husband
0Thor0 · 36-40, M
@Summersrain I could understand that.

I just don't get why it matters that her friends know we are friends. I mean her husband already knows that we are
Summersrain · 51-55, F
@0Thor0 does her husband feel threatened by you?
0Thor0 · 36-40, M
@Summersrain If he does neither of them have shared that with me. I guess it's possible and that he just told her in private. So he might feel ashamed in front of her friends, I guess??? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Thanks for the perspective

ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
You need to tell her this yourself. Not us.

 
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