Had a big argument with friend/sitter. I got angry at her distant and hostile attitude after I got together with a new woman and introduced them to my child. She supported me through the separation and says that I was sobbing over my wife and then 2 weeks later was with someone new, how can you be healed? But this new woman is just amazing and I could not be happier.
Friend said she can no longer sit for me. I am now terrified she will tell my ex wife everything I have said about her and show her the texts from the early days when I would text my friend very angry messages about my ex. My ex and I are on good terms now and I know this would be disastrous. What can I say to her to stop her telling/showing my ex what I have been saying?