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Would you rather have a small circle of fiercely loyal friends, or a large network of useful contacts?

BalmyNites · F
I know many people, but can count my true friends on one hand, but those are people I know have my back, 24/7, no matter what.
@BalmyNites You're very fortunate.
BalmyNites · F
@PhoenixPhail Yes, I am
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
A few very good friend is all I could ask for.
It’s no contest, definitely the former.
SW-User
Give me the small circle
Dusty101 · F
Just one will do!
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
First option!
Zaxel · 26-30, M
why not both? but if it was mutually exclusive as a choice, id prefer the large network personally
Zaxel · 26-30, M
@YourBuddyRandall well what have you learned from this thought experiment , or what are you testing?
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@Zaxel Nothing too intense.

I tend to value stronger bonds, but I can see the value of being able to "call in" favors logically.

It's two different kinds of security.
Zaxel · 26-30, M
@YourBuddyRandall strong bonds are good for emotional security and radical emergencies (provided its strong enough) but i find that large networks are a security in a prosperous sense, it helps you move forward rather than 'get by'. so if i had to argue which one was superior, its the large network...aside from the emotional factor from strong bonds which cannot be replicated in a large network.
But now I have no one because someone took that away. They intended for me to be alone.
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@Spoiledbrat I'm sorry to hear this. =/
I’ve always had a large network of contacts. I have a tendency to not get close to people.
rockstar · 31-35, M
As long as they’re ‘useful’, a large number of contacts.
SW-User
Fiercely loyal.
deadgerbil · 22-25
small circle of friends
I can have both tyvm
SW-User
Large network
meJess · F
A pack of German Shepherds
YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M
@meJess playing outside the system. I like your style!
Peaches · F
A very small circle. ☮️
DDonde · 31-35, M
The former.
The former, tbh.

 
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