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Have you ever been ditched by your best friend?

We were friends for 8 years. She was like a sister to me but then she started working at a new place and I got replaced, she started texting less and we didnt hang out as often. The breaking point was when we were having lunch and she kept texting and not into the conversation that much. I was pretty hurt and told her, she said she had changed and it embarassed her and couldnt look at me in the face. We didnt talk for months after that. I feel like she's trying to reconnect and I might sound like an asshole but I dont feel like it. I also have new friends now and they're more supporting.
There ya go! Same thing happened to me recently, and we were like sisters, and now that she’s working longer hours, I understand that, however she has just like “dropped” me. It hurts. I had never been as close to someone as we were. She lives a few states away.
@Alic3ack I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s an awful way for somebody to treat you like that.
alan20 · M
@LadyGrace C'est la vie. It shouldn't be though.
@alan20 Yes, and I agree. Some people don’t have a heart. I must go now. I don’t want to but I have some errands to run. I hope you have a good rest of the day.
summersun · 36-40, F
Yes. Sucks but it happens and all you can really do is move on.
You have moved into different circles. I would still be a friend to her though. If she reaches out it’s ok to see her. It might have hurt, but we all change and move on to other places. What hurts is you felt she left you. It happens but I would not lose hr friendship totally if she is reaching out. She obviously misses you. Don’t be too harsh. This is life....people come and go and come and go again. Keep the door always open for a friendship unless the person has really really turned on you and hurt you badly with malicious intent.
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
Well if you do not feel like it then don't. Or give her a chance, but it will of course never be as close as it was.
yeah about 9 years of knowing them. treated like i didnt even exist, became rude
SW-User
I hate this feeling 🤦🏻‍♀️ I didn't try to connect with her again,she changed so do I.
People change in their teens and early 20s. She may have different interests.

Still it is nice to have a friend that has known you for years...and likes you anyway. You may very well not have the same close relationship...but you may enjoy her company from time to time.
Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
I basically told most of my friends from primary and secondary school to fuck off out of my life. They were a bunch off dicks that had turned on me a few times.
xRedx · M
Yeah I have
TripHazard · 31-35, M

 
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