Do you miss your ex best friend?

The truth is I miss her company and how lively she is, she protects me in times of trouble, be there when I'm sad or lonely...but I stopped talking to her three years ago and I have no plans to talk to her again..never in my life all because she was sick. A sickness that can ruin relationships..I hope she can cope it..she is such a risk and I decide put her down and just dropped..

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SW-User

I've lost them because they changed and pushed away. It does hurt losing people you were once close to.

Sepia · 36-40, F

@SW-User oh I see..as they say never disturbed them if they walked away from your life..

SW-User

Yep if you chase after them, makes people aggravated

SW-User

:/

My best friend became really distant when I needed her, now I wonder, she surely thought I was sick too, because I was really depressed. And all I needed was some nice non judgemental company... I have the sense she got tired of me. And then didn't care a friendship of years and years break.

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SW-User

@Sepia and I say sadly because for her profession she started judging me as a sick person. Not as a caring friend.

Sepia · 36-40, F

@SW-User that's true..does she favour her career over relationships?..that can be a factor

Sepia · 36-40, F

@Sepia she can say it with a care...if you are that sick and the profession she has now..the hurting part is that she did not help you :(

RubySoo · 56-60, F

A special person to me told me they felt they had become a burden to me....and felt I needed a break from out friendship. They said I had become too attached and they didn't feel I was simply just a concerned friend anymore. This hurt greatly. I knew all along they real reasons for wanting to cease contact.....but there was absolutely nothing in could do. They did get back in touch and appologise and we are friends again.....but it's very different now.

We miss what we had with person as much as the person themselves.

Sepia · 36-40, F

@RubySoo Probably there are a kind who doesn't want to be lonely in a "place"

LUVELACE · T

Lol,so she thought you were snitching on her because she is a slapper/slag/hussy/tramp/slut and can’t keep her legs closed or her knickers on for more than a few seconds,and you classed that as a friend,so sad

Sepia · 36-40, F

@LUVELACE I already gave her a lot of chances..and that's sad

Angeleyez · 51-55, F

I’m confused you stopped being her friend because she was sick?

Sepia · 36-40, F

@Angeleyez it all started when she accussed me of telling her bf of her cheating..but I did not..she went with so many men..those men she slept with may spread what she does..she's a nympho...it took me too long to realize she was

SW-User

@Sepia I've dealt with that with a couple of girls, those kind of people are toxic

Sepia · 36-40, F

@SW-User If they are willing to go on theraphy..might be a cure to relationship and to themselves.

Thingschange4444 · 51-55, M

Mines gone forever. But her memory will live with me forever.

Mysteriousliaisons · 56-60, M

Aye very much so ! Been 3 years now since she passed on

SW-User

Yeah I do... a ton

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

I miss the friendship we had at a time but she became someone I didn’t trust and couldn’t respect. The time bad come for it to end

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