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Ok , hoping you guys can help with this ?

Up until September Last Year I was friends , and the odd beer buddy with a guy across the road , started out as lending lawnmower ect , him and his wife and kids were nice , great little family unit , so I thought .
Then in September I saw his wife moving out , but she left the kids with him , that great as , as far as I know they were both great parents , but with 2 days the guy started dressing as a woman , actually he look very good as a woman , elegantly dressed , even his hair , a neat bob and barly any make up , but the odd thing is he has completely blanked me , even if I’ve try to make light conversation.
Do you think I should persist and show I’m friendly , and cool with him , and not judging him in any way , if he just not sure or shy of his situation , he’s a great father and as far as I can see the same guy
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
Maybe keep it at a wave or a hello until he comes around.
firefall · 61-69, M
I'd suggest you persist, but you might need to ask what name/pronoun he'd like to be addressed as? If he's transitioning to being a woman, that might be critical for him.

Or he might just regard you as a reminder of his earlier, discarded, self, which prolly isn't fixable at all
Wishingwellguy · 46-50, M
Maybe just give him more time @firefall
Myself11 · 61-69, M
I say talk with him and tell him how you feel
tonyparker1 · 61-69, M
Try chatting with him but in your mind do you want a relation ship with him
zhafar · 61-69, M
I don't think I'd meddle too much.
Wishingwellguy · 46-50, M
@zhafar as I say maybe give him
More time
zhafar · 61-69, M
@Wishingwellguy Ya. Maybe he'll lighten up. Either way, you don't have any skin in it.
UserNameSW · 46-50, M
Be friendly and available if they want to chat
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
Be friendly but not intrusive .

 
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